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I been having thoughts of suicide…?

Hi. I'm 17 years old and i been haveing these thoughts of suicide and i really don't know what to do. My reasons for it make me feel pretty sad every day. Here are my reasons.

I'm ashamed of the way i look, I don't feel like i'm good looking even though i'm told i am.

I have a speech problem (stuttering) i have very little to no friends at all cause of it plus because of this problem i'm sure it will make my chances of getting a job very low.

Never had a girlfriend cause of the stuttering and the way i think i look.

I have a poor education, i droped out of school in the 5th grade and thats the most depressing thing i have in my life right now, I did it cause i didnt like the way i was treated, My parents wanted me to go back but i just flipped out when i went to school.

I wanted to make my family proud you know like i wanted to finish school go to colledge and make something of myself but insted i feel so worthless like whats the point of being here when i have nothing going for me at all.

What should i do?

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7 Responses to “I been having thoughts of suicide…?”

1. admin Says:
   October 20th, 2009 at 2:52 am
   "I wanted to make my family proud" will your suicide make them proud? please do not be Selfish worst thing can happen to a parent is death of their child.

   now if people tell you you are good looking it means you are, if you do not like somethings try to change your image like get a new style haircut or something.

   about dropping from school is there any way you can go back? if not try to do some courses in what you like. try to take photography courses , or veterinary or something you will think you will be good at.

   I have aFriendn who isStutteringg and he has a loads ofFriendss and aGirlfriendd too, it has nothing to do with youstutteringg it is yourself you are too selfconsciouse.

   you are only 17 your life is just beggioning please try to relax and fight a little !
   people who really avoid you because of Stuttering are ASSHOLES. but I really do not thing it is a big thing atoll.

   my e-mail is Maddoxjolivet@yahoo.com write to me anytime you like

   Answer to your answer: May be your Parent are acting Like this because they think yo will come around? have you tried to talk to them, Please you have to show some strenght and will to get better for m it looks like you dont want to fight and are looking for reason to commit suicide.
   Ok How is that? Find a Job any job and take a year off or something and after year go back to study to any kind you will be interested

2. admin Says:
   October 20th, 2009 at 2:52 am
   Perhaps you should go back to school and further your education… although I had no idea it was even legal to drop out in 5th grade. Nevertheless, I think in doing that you will greatly feel that you have a purpose in life and I think it'll make you more confident and give you a sense of self worth. But perhaps you should seek medical advice to be on the safe side. You're only 17, you still have your whole life ahead of you, and you matter! Things get better, they always do.
3. admin Says:
   October 20th, 2009 at 2:52 am
   Dude, you're only 17. You can change everything. You still have lots of time to change and start fresh. Don't give up. Life is precious, don't **** it up by suiciding. Look at all those poor kids in the world that don't have homes, familys, etc. So stay strong. You can do this!
4. admin Says:
   October 20th, 2009 at 2:52 am
   Try looking into GED. There are so many ways of doing this, people do it at every age! This alone can make you feel so much better about your confidence. In your question, I can tell you have all the capability to achieve such a venture. I got my GED, it's just the same as having a high school diploma. I even went to college with it. Think of all the people who had to go through so much before they had the chance to even get one, all the diversity. If you think of all the child abuse and war, poverty, parents on drugs, abandonment, hunger, incest, orphaned, at least you know how to read and write! You really don't have it bad, in that, your parents care about you, and that you're looks are a major factor, speech impediment is not that crucial!, really! Think about the people who cannot go to the doctors for serious medical problems, think about the children dying of cancer, or other serious illness that cannot be cured. You really don't have it that bad. We all have insecurities. Girls and Guys, no matter how beautiful other people might think they are, still think they look like monsters. What if you are gone tomorrow, then your life would have been for naught! You would have not made an impact on, or for your life. Don't you think that you could have possibly made it good somehow, for something, for somebody, or for some animal, or cause? You can do art, you can do something good in some way that will make an impact. So, don't think about just yourself, think about all the other 'ugly ducklings' out there in our history who have really inspired us, and made our world a better one despite all their trials and tribulations they had to overcome. Do us both a favor and look up this person who was born without any arms and legs and now gives us all amazing inspiration of what is possible to really know how to live while we're living. I saw this on 20/20. Life Without Limbs. Hopefully you can see some light in what I'm wanting to enlighten you with. If you're gone tomorrow, then, why not do what you want to do today anyways?! Don't make it other people's world, make it yours. And please, let me know what how you are feeling.
5. admin Says:
   October 20th, 2009 at 2:52 am
   dude you need to get back in school some how and become a functional human and you can take classes for speech impediment (help you stop stuttering) i think the reason you have no girlfriend is because you're not confident and if your not confident woman can sense it and you give an aura of low self esteem but you shouldn't kill your self you may want to see a doctor or psychiatrist and they may want you to take anti-depressants but it will help you. you need to be at more social events and make other friends this well help you so much just by these simple changes
6. admin Says:
   October 20th, 2009 at 2:52 am
   Hi. I think I know where you're coming from although at 44 I'm a lot older than you. I've never been comfortable with the way I look although
   I have received compliments from time to time. Also,when I was younger I had a bad stuttering problem. I underwent years of speech
   therapy when I was in elementary school. For the most part I conquered my stammer,but to this day when I'm under stress it comes
   back. I have grown to accept it will always be with me. It shakes my
   confidence as well.

   It's natural to have thoughts of suicide when you're depressed-there
   have been times I have felt the urge myself. But I'm still here and am glad for it-there would have been so many things I would have missed out on if I had taken the easy way out.

   I personally have seen the devastating effect a person's suicide can have on those left behind. When I was 29,a person who I grew up with and had been good friends with in high school committed suicide.
   I will never forget how his family all huddled together and wept during
   the burial,it was a terrible thing to see. The suffering was over for him-I hope-but it was just beginning for those he left behind,especially his
   mother. It was a selfish,terrible thing for him to do. After that,I have
   never been tempted to do it.

   If your lack of education depresses you,you can fix it. There must be a way to get your diploma,maybe home study. After that,you can study
   at some college on-line. You do need to get out there and get a job,
   don't let your stutter defeat you in life. You can conquer it,although
   it will always be there. Be strong,you have more going for you than you think. The important thing is,don't give up,you have your whole life ahead of you. You may find it hard to believe,but I envy you,I would give
   anything to be 17 again,and your problems are not insurmountable.

   Take care and good luck. I hope things get better for you.

7. Tommy Says:
   October 22nd, 2009 at 1:05 am

   Hello,

   I definitely know what you are going through. I have stuttered ever since I can remember, and although it has weakened my confidence when it comes to conversations, I have learnt to play around with it (by being funny and caring, asking others what they are interested in, and thinking what I’m going to say before I say stuff).

   I know suicide my seem like the easy way out, but like others have said before, there is so much to look forward to at such a young age. Whether you believe it or not you will achieve what you set your mind to. Plus if you think you have it bad, think about those poor kids who get meningitis and lose all their limbs.

   What you have to realise in life, is that people will like you for who you are as a person. The good people will look past your stutter and attempt to get to know you on a personal level.

   My advice for you is write a list of the things you want to do in your life right now. Find out what is required to do those things and get started, one thing at a time. If you want a girlfriend go out and find one. Start talking to every girl you come across. There’s no point saying “I’m not going to get a girl because she’ll hate me for my stutter”. The fact is that you tried, and if you get rejected, it shows you the girl wouldn’t be interested anyway. There will be someone out there for you, trust us.

   Go out into the world and experience the beauty of it, and remember that there will be people who are there to support you through the tough times and people to share with you, the good times.

   Head up buddy, we are here for you.

   Take care,

   Tommy

   p.s: My email is nzmodel@gmail.com, if you ever want to talk about what you are going through.

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